The menswear I got from my Dad

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(Last month, my teenage daughter Lily was doing work experience here at PS. One of the tasks we gave her was to write an article that she thought readers might like. Here it is.)

By Lily Crompton

Having a Dad like mine provided its fair share of fun when I was little. Like, figuring out what these things were:

Or what we could make these things into:

Or getting scared in the night by a hundred damp socks hanging up like snakeskins. 

Occasionally, I’d don some vast cowboy boots over my pajamas, or have a heart-to-heart with the mannequin. But none of my Dad’s stuff ever seriously appealed to me. 

These days, though, I’ve realised that many of the things I use and love day to day have been pilfered from him, or received as very thoughtful gifts from him. Either way I have this blog to thank. 

So here is a love letter to my favourite loot from the menswear world. (My dad will add the technical bits and show you where to look if you like them.)

Sunspel indigo-dyed T-shirt

Indigo is definitely my favourite colour. To me it is the colour of ink, of the sea, of magic. It is ordinary yet infinitely mysterious. You could get lost in indigo’s depths.

So I really like the colour,but it’s not the only reason I get excited for this T-shirt to come out of the wash. I also love the shape – longish, with short sleeves; and the material – cool and thin, but not see-through. I like doing yoga so it is ideal to have a very cool T-shirt, and one that is long enough to tuck into shorts securely while doing downward dog. 

Simon’s comments: This was from a special edition Sunspel did years ago, which also included a version dyed in woad (emphasising the English angle there). The woad was discontinued sadly, but fortunately the indigo version remains.

Campbell’s of Beauly Fairisle crew jumper

This is my favourite item of clothing, partly because of my associations with it. When my Dad got back from a trip to Scotland, where he visited Campbell’s of Beauly, he showed us photos of wild, muted landscapes, uninterrupted and vast. Every time I put this jumper on, I feel a thin layer of that wild-ness surrounding me. 

Just today, I also read the blog post on Campbell’s and am even more happy to own this jumper! It’s so nice to know that the people who made it were preserving a tradition they really cared about.

I think my Dad said something about the special way this was knitted, but I can’t remember (sorry). In any case it has a very nice shape, slightly balloon-y but tighter at the hems; and not scratchy at all.

Simon’s comments: I think I referred to traditional Fairisle patterns, but this is a great piece, great value, and still available on the Campbell’s site. Her sister got one of the Fairisle headbands, which also went down well. Surprisingly so - that was my best gift giving ever

Anonymous Ism knitted socks

I love these socks because wearing them feels like your feet are being given a hug. They have ribbing around the arch of the foot, which does the hugging part. I’ve never seen other socks with that. 

They also have a very large knit (is that the word?) so when you walk around with them your feet get a sort of massage from the ridges. It’s really nice, trust me. 

Simon’s comments: These were from Trunk, a chunky knit in a nice Donegal-type pattern. Unfortunately Anonymous Ism changes all the time and I can’t see these available now anywhere 

Kaweco brass fountain pen

This Kaweco fountain pen is my absolute prized possession. I have been a stationery enthusiast for a long time, but hadn’t heard of Kaweco until my Dad got me this pen for my birthday about four years ago. 

It is brass, so tarnishes as you use it, which is one of the things I love most about it. In fact at first I disliked the tarnishing, but now agree with my Dad that the best objects can stand regular use but show their use too. When I briefly lost this pen I was very very sad (although I did find it eventually). With it, I had lost a precious record of the time I’d spent writing. 

As for the actual experience, the ink flows smoothly, never blots or stops. (My favourite ink colour so far is Midnight Blue from Kaweco). I’m always horrified when I try writing with other pens, and run quickly back to this one. 

For a long time I didn’t use this pen at school for fear of attracting attention. When most people forget to bring a pen altogether you can look a little conspicuous refilling your ink cartridge. But eventually the longing for this brass beauty overcame me and my essays have been Midnight Blue ever since. 

Simon’s comments: These are widely available and really are lovely. They write more smoothly than some of the most expensive nibs. 

Margaret Howell black beret

I love berets. I only have two but I love them.

One reason for this is an episode of Duolingo French Podcast I listened to about berets. I found the story of the beret so cool! Even if you’re not learning French there’s an English transcript you can read and I would really recommend doing so (especially if you like clothes, which I’ve heard some of you might). In short, though, the beret was originally a large floppy hat made by French shepherds using wool from their sheep. It then shrunk once rained on, making it dense and waterproof. 

The podcast was an interview with a woman who hand-embroiders berets, wanting to bring them back into fashion. I have since been slightly obsessed with berets, especially embroidered ones. I love doing embroidery so one day I’ll hopefully make my own! For now I love this classic black one from Margaret Howell, a present from my Dad (who also has multiple berets). This one is especially good because it is quite large, and I am quite literally big-headed. 

Simon’s comments: Neither Margaret Howell nor sub-brand MHL are currently selling this but it is seasonal so I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s back in the autumn. Part of the challenge with berets is finding a shape that suits the head, and this does perfectly on Lily 

Embroidered handkerchief

My Dad keeps his handkerchiefs in a large glass vase, which my sister and I used to greatly enjoy upending. We would pick our favourites and mourn the fact that the most fantastically patterned ones hardly ever got to perch in our Dad’s pocket. (“We think it goes with your shirt.”)  I never thought of adopting the handkerchiefs myself, to actually blow my nose on.

In fact, I’m quite surprised I didn’t catch onto handkerchiefs sooner. My favourite books when I was younger were in the genre of Anne of Green Gables and The Secret Garden, and what makes you feel more like a nineteenth-century English literary heroine than a handkerchief? (Although these heroines do seem to give out their handkerchiefs at an alarming rate, and as I’ve only got one I’d rather not lose it.)

Anyway, sometime or other I found a handkerchief that my Dad wasn’t using and decided to steal it for myself. This one is particularly Green Gables-esque, as it’s white and embroidered. (Embroidered where? And by whom? Hopefully my Dad can tell us.)

Simon’s comments: This was actually a vintage piece that I picked up from a little shop on Portobello Road, and they’re easy to find. I love the craft of embroidered hanks, but always felt a little too feminine wearing one. Great to know this one is now being used 

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Markus S

I can relate to this post very well. 

I have two teenage daughters and, among others, I gave them all four of my Real Mc Coy’s sweatshirts (crewnecks in grey and navy and hoodies in grey and black).

They were already too small for me to begin with and shrunk significantly in the wash. They really like them though, of course, they are not the coveted Ralph Lauren polo sweatshirt with the visible polo player, which my wife and I did not buy them so far.

Bob

Lovely article, Lily. It seems you had a busy half term. I think your dad has competition!

Aaron D

Permanent Style: The Next Generation is secured?
I enjoyed reading this article and it was an interesting perspective.

David

Lily, this was great! You seem to have your own writing voice—a real achievement for someone your age.

Simon, unrelated to the article, I was wondering if you could provide some points of comparison between your Ciardi DBs, and your Assisi DBs. It looks like the Assisi is slightly shorter, has a bit more belly in the lapels, and has slightly higher button position. It also seems like the shoulder construction is a little more robust on the Assisi than on the Ciardi—is that true? Any help would be greatly appreciated 🙂

David

Thank you!

Phil G

With apologies to other writers, this is the most fun article I’ve read here for some time! Good work Lily.

Caspar

This was a lovely article to read, thank you Lily.

Sebastian

how sweet

Rammy

Great work Lily, very nicely written. Purely because I tend to get more negative reviews about my clothes from my daughter I’d be interested to know what you don’t like that your Dad wears?!

JL

Please can you tell my wife to stop stealing my cashmere jumpers ‘for an oversized look’?
Mercifully my daughter is only 1.
o tempora o mores…

John R

Great article Lily. Well written, interesting, paints a lovely picture, and with personality. And it reminds that favourite pieces don’t need to be *obvious*, they can be small and unexpected. Keep up the good writing. (Did you do the drawings? Nice touch)

Jeremy

What a reflective, thoughtful and apparently effortless article about her enjoyment of and passion for beautiful and stylish things. Like father, like daughter – but with her own twist. Loved it.

Peter

Lovely article
I have two daughters and would love to think that they might find a use for some of the things I buy, collect, horde (depending on who you ask)

Robert M

Some serious writing chops on display here – I guess it runs in the family!

Jonathan Mills

Way to go Lily!

Jostein

Very nice article and a true joy to read! Well done Lily!

I loved the part about the Kaweco, which I also have myself. What a wonderful writing tool and an object that can really inspire, which is maybe what we see here, because this is truely inspired writing 🙂

howie

lily: you’ve out-simoned simon and outdone your dad (not an easy feat (feet). is there a PS for women on the horizon? looking forward to hearing more from you.

Andrew Hughes

Hi Lily,

Thanks for your article and great drawings. Will have a look at the Kaweco pens.

Best wishes,

Andrew

Ronnie Pickering

I rather liked this by Zadie Smith https://www.vogue.com/article/can-you-be-serious-and-seriously-glamorous-zadie-smith. I wonder if you might periodically gather together the best writing on clothes in the last e.g. six months.

Chancellor

I join others in applauding you, Lily, for the calibre of writing in this article. Much better than I could do as a teenager! Well done! I enjoyed reading your reflections.

Willis

This may be one of the most heartwarming stories I’ve ever read. This is not exclusive to PS articles, but to all. It makes me think about the day where I would want my child to look fondly on all my beloved clothes and create their distinct memories

Jude

What an engaging article and great to hear that Lily did the drawings as well which are really lovely and whimsical.
I remember when we are wrote using refillable ink pens at primary school (going back some, I know) so that was a lovely jolt back in time down memory lane. I might just have to go home and hunt for my old fountain pen….
Lily definitely has her own handwriting style so I hope she pursues it and it would be good to hear more from her in the future.

Richard

Really fun article, thank you for sharing Lily!

Jean T.

Hello,
Good work to Miss Crompton for the article, it was lovely to read.
I don’t want to appear rude or anything but I was surprised to learn your daughter Lily was a teenager doing a work experience in your company. The representation I had of her was this little girl holding your hand in the “Wedding outfit by popular request” article, but admitedly, it was 15 years ago…. I also remember you talking about clothes for playing in the mud with your (young) childs, and now I’m suddenly feeling really old. A feeling I had since two month ago, when I changed company and switched from being the youngest to being the oldest employee, management not included….

Lindsay McKee

What a wonderful article…such fun!
When I was about 5 years old, I actually admired my father’s black suit, nothing special and I don’t know where he bought it, BUT, I used to try it on as I liked the look and as you can imagine…well… ahem…. It didn’t fit….way too big but I thought then that I was the “bees knees” and felt great. That was in the sixties.
Into the seventies and my first Marks and Spencer “St Michael” jacket with a very loud check pattern which seemed to be the style in the mid-seventies. I don’t have any pictures but…
Into the eighties,1987, a trip to London and of course Savile Row!!!!
I walked into Gieves & Hawkes and came away with my first ready to wear double breasted pinstriped suit and probably was not even made there but looked fantastic and in the nineties, again my first MTO suit, another DB pinstripe and finally got my bespoke from steed a few years ago, a navy single breasted suit and I love it.
There’s my potted sartorial journey!!!

Oliver

Best post ever

Phil W

What a wonderful article. Getting to learn about the items others treasure and the stories behind them is one of my favourite things.

Jeff

I *rushed* to read this one and I was right to do so! Love the drawings. Great article.

Joe

What a lovely article to read. I too have a teenage daughter but for all her many talents, she holds no interest in gaining work experience with her old man. So it would appear you’re fortunate to have a natural heir to the throne of PS Simon. Well done Miss Crompton.

Mark Gross

Nicely done, Lily. Your dad hangs his socks to dry? Is that really necessary relative to low heat gentle tumble drying?

Jean T.

Hello Mark,
Actually yes, I don’t believe tumble drying can ever be “gentle” even to its lowest setting, but to be precise, laying the sock (or any kind of knitwear for this matter) flat is better, in order to avoid gravity stressing the shape…
However be prepared to have your wife complains you take up half the space of the drying rack with socks every week…

Paul

beautiful, thank you both x

Rand

Lily, congratulations on a fantastic article. Happy Halloween to you and your dad. Hope yall get up to something magically mischievous!

Rowley

Halloween costume Walkie Talkie?

Paul

I just love this post, beautifully written and illustrated! The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree as the saying goes. As a fellow dad of 4 girls, this pulls at my heartstrings as I too enjoy sharing such things with them. Thanks for brightening my Friday!!!

Ben

As a father of three young daughters (and a son), I love this! Maybe my favorite post from you.

RolleFC

Beutiful language used. A true writer.

Alex

Nice! I relate to some degree; some of my ties and shirts were hand-me-downs from elder family members and I just love the emotional history that comes with such things.

Matthew V

A lovely, well written article.
Simon, you must be very proud.
It makes me think of the clothes and accessories of my father’s I liked, and sometimes borrowed!

Rich

Lovely post! I thoroughly enjoyed reading it. It transported me to my own experiences admiring my grandfather’s clothes, and I hope to pass on some timeless pieces to my kids when they’re older.

Max

Heartwarming and still professionel article! Wish your family all the best!
kind regards!

Diego

What an enjoyable read (I really loved it).

Loved the drawings as well (they are almost Picaso-esque ;)) .

Neil Gadhok

This is really excellent heartfelt writing. Lovely

JTR

This was a lovely piece! I especially enjoyed the drawings. Hope we will see a sequel some day!

Chris M

Beautifully written, nicely done Lily!

John

Lovely article, made my morning!

Chris

Lovely article and very well written, I would happily read more. First time hearing of Campbells of Beauly and they have some good looking pieces.

Chris

Interesting article, thank you!

Heiko

Dear Lily,
thank you so much for this lovely article! As a journalist from Germany, I salute a fellow writer! Your style is vivid and full of color. It was heartwarming to read and so interesting to learn which items you like and what makes them special in your eyes. I agree, indigo is fascinating. Well done, Lily. Thank you.

Bent

Fantastic. I’ll gladly read a whole bookful (sic) of this.

Makaga

Brava, Lily! I would really enjoy reading your thoughts on the Holiday collections and what pieces you think will be really cherished down the line.

JJ Katz

Very sweet.

TCN

This was wonderful. At the risk of being hyperbolic, all I ever wanted was for my children to enjoy and understand the “weird” and eccentric things I seem to stock the house with. Sons are easy, most will eventually come around. Oh but to have your daughter appreciate your clothes and collections, that’s something even more magnificent. I think I had a glimpse of it the other day when my daughter texted me from school and told me she wanted to get a Barbour jacket. I fought the urge to tell her to just come home and pick from the 40 or so that her mother and I already have, and just responded by saying “I think that’s great, which one did you have in mind?”

Tino

Wow, your daughter can write – keep one eye open!

OP

The concept is irresistible, the sketches are sanzzy, the writing is lovely. Well done.

Michael

Lovely article filled with sincerity, thank you!

Edouard

I related very much to this article. I have two teenage daughters, the eldest of whom once wrote an essay about her dad dressing her differently from other children when she was little, how she first felt self-conscious about it, and how it gave her a sense of style later on.