
But the “bachelor flat/cum showrooms” of Thomas Cary (as he himself described it to me by email) are something else. As the pictures here amply demonstrate, the four small rooms on the upper-east side are stuffed from floor to ceiling with gentlemen’s collectibles and accoutrements.
From an old Dunhill walking stick with concealed blade to an Asprey catalogue featuring beautiful painted boards; from Christmas cards drawn by Cecil Beaton to vintage velvet slippers. And of course books, mountains and mountains of books. Regular customers include Ralph Lauren and Tommy Hilfiger, who have bought items both for display and design inspiration.

As I was to be in New York, and one seller on AbeBooks.com (Thomas) lived in the city, I thought it would be a good opportunity to check out the book. Little did I know the treasure trove I was discovering.

I did end up with Men in Style though, which I was very happy with. Fans of classic style will be familiar with many of the illustrations, but it is lovely to have them collected and in one’s hands. And doubtless they will provide inspiration for many blog posts in the future.

What’s the address/how do I get there/does he have a web site?
Ahem… Most interesting. Is it open to everyone or by appointment only?
Hi – yes I’m sure Thomas would be willing to show anybody around who has an interest in such things. His email address is Carycollection at aol.com and his book collection is gradually being listed online – the top two hundred items can be seen on Abe Books at
http://www.abebooks.com/servlet/SearchResults?sortby=0&vci=714383
I’m glad someone else has seen Men in Style. I happened upon it in my university library while looking for something entirely different. Every time I get a notice that it’s due, I just can’t help but renew it.
I debated posting about it last week and decided I would put it off until next week, but looks like I got beat to the punch, haha.
Walking into this apt is like being Howard Carter walking into King Tut’s (or Tom’s) tomb- fabulous!
Beware–Cary is known throughout NYC and beyond for his OUTRAGEOUS prices, his unflattering “country club vintage” wardrobe, and his rudeness. He has been banned by a number of booksellers.
His use of language is uniquely laughable: In his abebooks listings you’ll find that everything has been “thence bespokely framed” or “chicly billiard-green overmatted” or “a connoisseur’s delight to grace their decorateur oceanfront bibliotheque.”
I don’t quite know what to make of this note on one listing: “Substantial associated ‘cum’ weight involved . . . “
YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED.
I could not AGREE more.
Thomas was very kind and courteous with me (before he knew I was anything more than a customer). And his price on the book was among the cheapest I could find.